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Old 04-10-2018, 02:40 AM
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advice on sex please

i will get straight to the point. im single, no gf, close girl friends or anything. not early 20s or something.

last few times i've had sex was with hookers. my first time was with a hooker, she was ok but i was inexperienced so I finished pretty soon and I didn't feel satisfied even though i booked her to satisfy my urges.

the next few times I did it with hookers, i didnt enjoy it at all. no idea why

i am considering booking a pros in frankfurt soon as I found a blonde and it would be quite expensive. as you can see from above, i am a little confused. on one hand, get to fulfill a fantasy. I made sure never to fall in love with them and somehow i dont kiss them like in a relationship.

on the other, pay so much to feel empty ? is that normal? to feel empty and a little guilty after paid sex?
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Old 04-10-2018, 02:48 AM
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Re: advice on sex please

Your feelings are a result of your experience not matching your expectations.

This is quite normal when it comes to commercial sex because there is no intimate bond with the provider. It is purely a physical act.
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Re: advice on sex please

what's there to feel guilty about paid sex?
it is not like you are attached and didnt pay after the deed.

as for the unfulfilling sex part..you just need to find the right gal to satisfy your sexual needs.


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on the other, pay so much to feel empty ? is that normal? to feel empty and a little guilty after paid sex?
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Re: advice on sex please

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The transactional nature of paid sex tends to lead to emptiness (both physically and emotionally) after the deed. Men engage hookers mostly just for the physical intimacy. Emotional fulfilment tends to come from a long term partner elsewhere be it a wife or girlfriend.

Some people prefer the paid GFE experience via KTV's or massage parlours instead of the traditional hooker which is purely transactional. The costs tend to be higher for the former.

It is important to ask what you want and engage the right services accordingly. Don't feel guilty about it, it does your mental well-being no good at all.
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Re: advice on sex please

If $$ is not an issue consider getting an escort lah. Accompanying you full DAYS you will likely get more satisfied in terms of the emotional bond (even if it is not genuine..) as compared to booking FL. FLs turnover customers like fastfood joints, they don't have the time to fulfill your feelings needs since this is not what they selling. They are merely selling service to meet PHYSICAL needs. Unless you book the FLs a few hours REGULARLY. Then maybe you can get more GFE. But really depends on your chemistry with the FL, the FL personality and how deep your pockets.

But bear in mind end of the day only ONE outcome. $$ spent and no permanent meaningful bond forged with the escort or FL. You will STILL feel HOLLOW ultimately. Hence i rather you spend the $$ in attending courses on how to attract woman. Cheaper in the long run and you may end up with a lifetime partner.

ML, FL, escorts are for people whom just want to escape reality temporarily or to sextisfy greedy primitive needs. No sane person will want to look for real love with these girls.
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Re: advice on sex please

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No matter how much you pay you still feel empty.
Those girl are selling their body for money. All they care is finish fast and quickly proceed to next customer.

Their focus is make you eject early.

Don't waste your money
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Re: advice on sex please

The emptiness comes from knowing the woman you’re fucking only lets you do it for money. Take that away and you know she won’t even give you the time of day.

Genuine satisfaction only comes from a woman wanting, metaphorically or literally, you to plant your seed in her. Being chosen from one of possibly many. it’s an inescapable instinct.

These are hardwired instincts. Think about it the next time you convince yourself commercial sex is best. Some can say it with conviction, but for most it is nothing more than self consolation.

Call a spade a spade.
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Re: advice on sex please

I think you should not restrict to kissing the escort. Instead of booking one time off escort, might want consider whole day, built some chemistry over dinner and drinks before going for the deed.

Since you have the ability to refrain from falling in love, the above action will give you enough satisfaction and not fall in the love trap
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Re: advice on sex please

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on the other, pay so much to feel empty ? is that normal? to feel empty and a little guilty after paid sex?
ts as long as paid fuck, it is normal and should be like that way ...

if you want real love, get a partner or wife
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Re: advice on sex please

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i will get straight to the point. im single, no gf, close girl friends or anything. not early 20s or something.

last few times i've had sex was with hookers. my first time was with a hooker, she was ok but i was inexperienced so I finished pretty soon and I didn't feel satisfied even though i booked her to satisfy my urges.

the next few times I did it with hookers, i didnt enjoy it at all. no idea why

i am considering booking a pros in frankfurt soon as I found a blonde and it would be quite expensive. as you can see from above, i am a little confused. on one hand, get to fulfill a fantasy. I made sure never to fall in love with them and somehow i dont kiss them like in a relationship.

on the other, pay so much to feel empty ? is that normal? to feel empty and a little guilty after paid sex?
Whatever you are going through right now is normal...

Go get yourself a decent girl and you'll know sex isnt just about pleasure.

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Re: advice on sex please

Paid sex can never bring true lasting happiness, this you must remember and understand. Your mind must be clear by knowing what you want, how the entire thing works and don’t over expecting from this kind of thing.

Maybe you expect them to be like gf to you, you think they will serve you like in porn or you think it is something wrong to engage paid sex.
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Re: advice on sex please

Read my nick. I really fucked many girls before.

IMHO, don't expect much from pay sex. Whore are there to sexisfy you but wouldn't love you.

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i will get straight to the point. im single, no gf, close girl friends or anything. not early 20s or something.

last few times i've had sex was with hookers. my first time was with a hooker, she was ok but i was inexperienced so I finished pretty soon and I didn't feel satisfied even though i booked her to satisfy my urges.

the next few times I did it with hookers, i didnt enjoy it at all. no idea why

i am considering booking a pros in frankfurt soon as I found a blonde and it would be quite expensive. as you can see from above, i am a little confused. on one hand, get to fulfill a fantasy. I made sure never to fall in love with them and somehow i dont kiss them like in a relationship.

on the other, pay so much to feel empty ? is that normal? to feel empty and a little guilty after paid sex?
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