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Old 15-05-2019, 11:23 PM
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

If this is the case, then if I kena Herpes from outside sex, I can always say I contracted it before marriage, but symptoms only just started to show

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Hey hello,,, Prove?? Are you kidding me?
I have to prove to you?
Me and my husband are both HSV carrier!
Are you one?

We have been a HSV carrier for 10 freaking years and what more you want me to prove? Roll eyes**
Or why don’t you suggest how you want us to prove!!?
By sharing our experience is not enough for you?
If you wanna know, easy,,,
go get yourself infected and then you will know ya,,,
Unbelievable,,,




If you constantly take medicine it will suppress the reoccurrence,,,,,
It depends on your body and health,,,
Some might just hit with 1 or 2 attack and that’s it,,,
It never reoccur,,,
But some,, example my hubby,,,
He didn’t experience any attack for 3-4 years
Coz he takes medz regularly,,,
But once he stops,,,
He had attack soon after,,
And If you are sick,,, the chances of virus attack is extremely high,,,
Coz body becomes weaker and immune system drops,,,




Hmm,,, I met my hubby 1 year after I broke up with my ex,,,
And we make love 2 months after we met,,,
But he only got his first attack another 1 year later,,,
And I can’t confirm when I got infected,,,
Coz I don’t recall having any symptoms,,,, or I didn’t know,,
I thought I was just sick,,,
I don’t even know I had std until my hubby confronted me,,,
Which is already 2 years after I broke up with my ex,,,

So according to our doctor, My affected area could be inside my vaginal,,,
Therefore I can’t see any signs,,,
But,, but,,, I start experiencing herpes attack in the later years
And blisters appears outside my vaginal,,,
These are new,,, and it could be infected by my husband,,,
So basically,,,
We are passing the virus to each other unknowingly,,,
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

can smoke through, but chances are, if it is an STD with no symptoms, you might have passed it on to wife already. By the time symptoms appear, she might already have caught it

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thats why i asked TS if the STD is curable or incurable one.

Anything curable, just ensure don't have sex during the "infection" period. That one still can "smoke" through.

Anything incurable must consider "self-declare" liao cuz life is a long journey and if you infected your partner? They will suffer together with you. Marriage can be broken also. haizzz.

https://www.moh.gov.sg/docs/librarie...817608a8cf.pdf

DSC STI GUIDE

see this list to scare yourself a bit. 5555

ps.
In every medical test (STD or other illness), there will be an official diagnosis to state clearly in medical terms what exactly is it.
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Old 15-05-2019, 11:30 PM
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

Wow.. did not know that Brad Pitt n Jessica Alba have hsv.. thanks for sharing info Mrs Ow..
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Old 16-05-2019, 12:46 AM
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

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If this is the case, then if I kena Herpes from outside sex, I can always say I contracted it before marriage, but symptoms only just started to show
Firstly,, if you are marriage you shld just stay faithful,,,
Secondly,, if you wanna do it outside,, be responsible and wear protection,,,
Minimize the chance,,
Thirdly,, a simple blood test will know if you kana more than a month or it’s a new one,,,

If I’m you wife,, I will ask you to go medical check up
Do a blood test to determine how long you have the virus,,
Provided she has the knowledge la!
But trust me,,, If you really have an attack
You will do anything possible to hide,,,
So it’s quite unlikely she will find out,,,
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Old 16-05-2019, 12:54 AM
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Wow.. did not know that Brad Pitt n Jessica Alba have hsv.. thanks for sharing info Mrs Ow..
Rumors has it,, Jess Biel and Scarlett Jo also HSV carrier,,,
Cause they both dated the same guy who pass the HSV to Jess Alba,,,
In fact, There are a lot more,,,
Paris Hilton,,,
Britney Spears,, she was found with the medz but she didn’t admit la,,
David and Victoria Beckham,, they both have it which makes everybody wonder who pass it to who,,,
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

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I’m 32 and I only have 2 sex partners in my whole life,,,
One is my ex and the other is my hubby,,, Hahahaha,,, (excluding 3some experiences)

I definitely got it from my ex,,,
We were dating since my uni days,,,
He was in the army,,, and he was my first,,,
I caught him engaging in prostitution once,,,
He told me he did it to learn from the “professional” so he can give me a better experience during sex,,,,
I forgive him once,,,
Then I caught him in another relationship with a PRC who turns out to be another prostitute!! I was devesated and left him,,,
After some time, I met my current hubby,,,
We have sex and it was really really good,,
Then one day he went MIA and I was really worried,,,
He appears at my void deck one night, waiting for me and confronted me of herpes!!
I totally have no idea of it,,, I have know knowledge about it too!

Then I went for a medical check,,, although the check cannot determine when I got it,,,
But it can determine the virus was present in my body for more than a certain period ( 1 month, I think)

Mine is definately more than that,,,, and my hubby is relative very new,,,
So it meant that I pass it to him,,,
I was so so so sorry for that,,,

But why I have no knowledge that I’m a HSV carrier,,
According to our doctor,,,
Once contacted,,, HSV will attack within 2 weeks (window),,,
Symptoms will arise,,,
Difficulty in urine,,, itching on the part where the virus is developing,,
Extremely pain in the hip and the groin area,,,
First few attacks are the worst,,, you could have fever too,,,
Coz your body is trying to fight off the virus attack,,,
Then small cluster of blisters start appearing,,,
It will takes about 1-2 weeks for the blisters to harden and peel off by itself,,,
Then the wound will heal as if nothing happened,,,
So the naked eyes won’t see a different before and after herpes attack,,,
But becoz I’m a female,,,
I might have contacted it inside my vaginal,,,
Which can be seen,,, symptom might presented itself but I don’t know,, Perhaps I thought I was just sick,,,

And FYI,, chlamydia and gonorrhoea are caused by some kinda bacteria,,,
Dude,, bacteria is curable,,, HSV,, it’s a virus,,, it’s Not curable
It’s totaly different,,,

Anyway whatever ends with a V means it’s a virus,,, HSV,,, HIV,,,
Virus cannot survive outside of the body,,,
So it’s absolutely impossible to contact the virus via towel or toilet seats,,,


Well when the “blisters” accidentally burst,,, the little liquid is the deadliest!
Once contacted, must quickly wash it off,,,
If not it might lead to new virus,,,
The virus will once stay on the part which contacted,,,
That’s why got it be extremely careful,,,
If you touch it unknowingly and continue to touch your face,,
The virus might end up on your face,,,

So for my hubby,,,
Once when He thought he is healing,,,
So we have sex,, he was wearing condom,,,
The next thing we know,,,
The virus spread to other part of his penis,,,
If the liquid contacted other part near your penis or vaginal,,
Like the pubic hair area,,, yes,, herpes might have a high chance of developing the virus there,,,
Which is out of the protection of the condom!

But even when the wound seems completed heal,,,
The virus might still exist on the skin surface,,,
That’s where it will transmit to another partner if engaged in sex,,,

Mouth is also dangerous if you engage in “mouth jobs” hahaha,,,
Coz if the girl has herpes virus on her pubic area,,,
Your face will surely comes in contact when you “paint” her ya,,,

So hope that answer your question,,,

Oh and lastly,,, strictly no natural birth,,, got to go for C-sec,,,
Coz you don’t know when the attack will take place,,
If it sway sway take place during the delivery,,,
The baby contacted the virus,,, it is deadly,,
The new born will not have the immune system strong enough to fight off the virus!
So ya,, C-sec when I gave birth to my 2 boys!
Thank you for the very informative post on HSV!
I was super worried I got it from random encounters in prior r/s and paid ML (only bbbj)
I was worried I would pass anything I did not check for to my wife.

But from your post, it seems that as long as I do no see symptoms of exposure in the first 2 weeks, that means I did not get virus right?

My concern point is recently my wife started having severe pain in the lower part of her tummy area, which only hurts during intercourse
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

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Herpes is also call HSV1 or HSV2

The HSV,, it’s a virus,,,
virus cannot survive outside be body,,
Urm, not entirely true. How do you account for ppl contracting HIV through blood transfusion then? Isn’t that blood taken from a host and stored away in a blood bank for sometime before being put to use?
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Urm, not entirely true. How do you account for ppl contracting HIV through blood transfusion then? Isn’t that blood taken from a host and stored away in a blood bank for sometime before being put to use?
I’m not an expert in this but I’m talking about HSV not HIV,,
Major different here,,,
HSV can only be spread via skin contact,,
A HSV carrier can shared the same towel with another user
But it will not be transmitted this way,,,
Nor by passing the virus via towel seat to the next user,,,
But that’s only for HSV la,,,
Then again,, there is HSV 1 and 2
Ours is HSV 2,,,
Which is affecting our private parts,,, hahaha,,,
HSV 1 is on the mouth area,,,
So I’m HSV 1 active,,, I give you a blow job,,,
I might pass the HSV virus to you,,,
Might la,,,
But if I kiss you,,, it’s quite likely to transmit the virus to your mouth,,,
Then again,,, HSV1 need not be transmitted via sex,,,
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Thank you for the very informative post on HSV!
I was super worried I got it from random encounters in prior r/s and paid ML (only bbbj)
I was worried I would pass anything I did not check for to my wife.

But from your post, it seems that as long as I do no see symptoms of exposure in the first 2 weeks, that means I did not get virus right?

My concern point is recently my wife started having severe pain in the lower part of her tummy area, which only hurts during intercourse
You shld get her to check with her Gyne,,,
STD should be the least concern on your mind,,,
Who knows what happened inside,,, might leads to a growth or something man,,,
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

How can a blood test show how long youve had it for?


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Firstly,, if you are marriage you shld just stay faithful,,,
Secondly,, if you wanna do it outside,, be responsible and wear protection,,,
Minimize the chance,,
Thirdly,, a simple blood test will know if you kana more than a month or it’s a new one,,,

If I’m you wife,, I will ask you to go medical check up
Do a blood test to determine how long you have the virus,,
Provided she has the knowledge la!
But trust me,,, If you really have an attack
You will do anything possible to hide,,,
So it’s quite unlikely she will find out,,,
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How can a blood test show how long youve had it for?
I explained previously,,
Once you are infected with HSV, your body will create antibodies to fight the virus,,
So if you are newly infected, your antibodies not strong ma,,,
If you infected for a while le, your antibodies is present in your body,,
So the blood test is to test for the existence of these antibodies,,,

According to the doctor, if the test successfully tested the present of the antibodies, it means that you are infected with HSV for some time le,,

That’s what happened to us,,
My hubby got infected and confronted me,,,
I also not sure if he got it from me or got it somewhere,,,
Coz I cannot recall me having HSV,,,

That’s why to prove my “innocence” I went for the test lo
Apparently, I have the antibodies present in my body,,,
So means I am a HSV carrier all these while,,,
Just that I didn’t know,,,
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

I think he thinks the blood test can show exactly how long a person has had the virus and misunderstood what you were saying about the one month period.
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Wow.. did not know that Brad Pitt n Jessica Alba have hsv.. thanks for sharing info Mrs Ow..
Does this mean that A.Jolie also might have?
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There are ways to manage the symptoms and the best is to keep your immune system in tip top condition. For that, a healthy diet is paramount. There is an adage - You are what you eat. There is a lot of confusion about what constitutes a wholesome diet. Generally, the lesser is processed, the better it is.

Without digressing too much, I just went to Google 'turmeric HSV' and 'coconut oil HSV', it led to some interesting links which may be beneficial to those who are suffering. There is no harm in trying natural methods to control the virus. All pharmaceutical products come with side effects, so it may be worth one's health to minimise the intake of medication to mitigate viral effects.
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

Mdm OW I salute you for sharing all your personal life experiences. Thank you very much. Anyway what the internet shows is just what is happening to you on the surface, if kena internal who will know unless really go and do all the test and check ups. So for the bro who keeps arguing about what you have read, pls go try to set your differences aside and listen from someone who has this kind of unpleasant experiences.
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