Anyone else feels trapped in a cage in a sexless Marriage?

[Artillart]

Am I the only one feeling trapped in this cage where your sex life is as frequent as other animals that mate once a year?

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Artillart

Am I the only one feeling trapped in this cage where your sex life is as frequent as other animals that mate once a year?

Not to mention, you get sucked dry of your money with lots of debts to pay.
She earns money, you pay.
You earn money, you also pay.

Basically, an ATM with a marriage certificate bond.
Can I invest in these bonds, bao jiak, interest rate wu hua. HAHAHA

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Artillart

Am I the only one feeling trapped in this cage where your sex life is as frequent as other animals that mate once a year?

Question - why did you marry her...

[Artillart]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Question - why did you marry her...

People can change before & after

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Artillart

People can change before & after

how long have you been together?
how long was the marriage?
do you have sex regularly before marraige?
do you ave kids?

[lameboy83]

I feel you All 😪 😢 😔
Come Bo Ta Bo L P

[Artillart]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

how long have you been together?
how long was the marriage?
do you have sex regularly before marraige?
do you ave kids?

about 5yr, Yes, No (Can count occurences with 1 hand so chance of kids is close to none lol)

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Artillart

People can change before & after

Lazy people in marriage becomes very dependent on another.
What is the point of that significant another.
What benefits does one get besides getting a Slob?

[sbwow]

-- create a new post myself --

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Artillart

about 5yr, Yes, No (Can count occurences with 1 hand so chance of kids is close to none lol)

Ohh...then you have to choose your options carefully...

- chat with her and tell her what you need and see if anything change
- go cheong outside and still go home
- final straw divorce and restart again

[SwordArt]

Do you know the cause of the change?
Have you spoken with her about the differences pre and post marriage?
Do you still love her?
Have you tried spicing things up?
Do both of you still go on date, have a long chat over dinner, communicating about everything in life?

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by SwordArt

Do you know the cause of the change?
Have you spoken with her about the differences pre and post marriage?
Do you still love her?
Have you tried spicing things up?
Do both of you still go on date, have a long chat over dinner, communicating about everything in life?

I am not the TS. I am divorced.

Before my divorce, I did all these that you talked about.

My ex-wife told me two things.

1. Our roles have changed from a couple to parents.
2. I cannot be so self-centred that everything is about me and my dick.

I decided to get divorced, even though it would get me much poorer.

I still have a sexless life and am still a father, but at least I don't have to share a bed with a woman that will not touch me anymore. Her focus changed to our children and, eventually, her lover outside. Someone that is more fun and does not nag at her for spending too much.

[redflower7988]

seems like it’s a commonality for couples, married or otherwise, to fall into a routine after some years.

[Bigbluebird]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

I still have a sexless life and am still a father, but at least I don't have to share a bed with a woman that will not touch me anymore. Her focus changed to our children and, eventually, her lover outside. Someone that is more fun and does not nag at her for spending too much.

Damn. Respect to you for taking the first move to leave and the last statement is very true, eventually even in a marriage, she will do that regardless of what she said earlier on.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

I am not the TS. I am divorced.

Before my divorce, I did all these that you talked about.

My ex-wife told me two things.

1. Our roles have changed from a couple to parents.
2. I cannot be so self-centred that everything is about me and my dick.

I decided to get divorced, even though it would get me much poorer.

I still have a sexless life and am still a father, but at least I don't have to share a bed with a woman that will not touch me anymore. Her focus changed to our children and, eventually, her lover outside. Someone that is more fun and does not nag at her for spending too much.

Why not pay for sex? You don’t have to answer to anybody now.