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Old 22-03-2023, 12:25 PM
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Question Sumting Wong with me?

Hi! Newbie here,

Is there something wrong with me and/or my lil brother? Went to geylang first time a couple weeks ago. had my first casual encounter with a lady in one of the lorongs. lady was cute, fun and clearly a professional.

Only problem is that i didnt come, lady was definitely attractive.. but when during penetration( with cap ), i can only feel her body heat. needless to say, it was quite disappointing, totally wasn't anything i thought it'd feel. If anyone have similar situation pls share you're solution(s).
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Old 22-03-2023, 09:54 PM
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

Might be a lot of things. Though since you didnt feel anything it might be deathgrip.

Do you masturbate often? Your penis might be desensitised due to you gripping too hard during masturbation. Known as deathgrip. Might wanna stop masturbating or change how you masturbate if this is the case. For changing how you masturbate, you could get a fleshlight, it puts less pressure on your penis. You could also masturbate without using porn and just masturbate with imagination, so when you see the actual thing you are more sensitive. Masturbation by frenulum stimulation is also viable. Once your issue is improved you can stop doing these and just be sure to use less pressure when masturbating. Continuing to do this will make you more sensitive and may lead to premature ejaculation, so unless youre into that, just stop when you feel comfortable with it.

If its not the above, then maybe you have some form of sexual anxiety? Or some feelings need to be involved for you? Maybe more intimacy might be needed for you to release? That would mean youre not really a chionging guy and should find a lady you get along with though.

For sexual anxiety, were you thinking of anything else while having sex? Performance? If so, next time just focus on the lady or releasing as soon as possible. Though this advice is kinda bad because it varies from person to person. Might have to think about it on your own.
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Old 23-03-2023, 06:29 PM
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

Were you nervous? I think try to relax bro.
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Old 24-03-2023, 01:34 AM
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

So to reply to the first message,
Yes I masterbate often, usually every 2-3 nights. So death grip might be a thing yea,

As for sexual anxiety and the other stuff, I'm pretty chill generally, so I doubt that's a factor.

Am currently trying cold turkey as suggested but I'm not hopeful.

And I wasn't nervous when I went booking. I can describe more like I was 'meh' not exactly excited but not exactly bored either. All I knew was I had a raging boner
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Old 24-03-2023, 04:30 AM
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

Yes I wank fairly often, around once a day.
No idea what death grip is but that sounds terrifying, never tried using my imagination b4 while wankin so might look into that. Currently on cold turkey so I hope I fix myself, as for anxiety, I'm generally chill so I don't think that's it.

It's also hard for me to find a lady cause I guess I'm a little conscious of myself(?) Work life balance is also kinda wack for me rn

Thanks for the tips tho, I'll look into this frenulum thingy
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Old 24-03-2023, 04:31 AM
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

I don't think I was nervous, felt more like "meh" when during enconunter. not horny but also not bored. had a raging boner tho
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

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Hi! Newbie here,

Is there something wrong with me and/or my lil brother? Went to geylang first time a couple weeks ago. had my first casual encounter with a lady in one of the lorongs. lady was cute, fun and clearly a professional.

Only problem is that i didnt come, lady was definitely attractive.. but when during penetration( with cap ), i can only feel her body heat. needless to say, it was quite disappointing, totally wasn't anything i thought it'd feel. If anyone have similar situation pls share you're solution(s).
feel only body heat mean her pussy too loose ?
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

Are you a virgin before the Geylang visit?
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

Maybe something same as me, i think more on deathgrip after maturation too often then lose feeling on the actual with FL.
Sometime brain keep thinking those risks issue will also cause this problem for not having a good pleasant time.

I dont think there is any fix unless we totally focus on the FL and enjoy the session then it might help bah.
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

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Originally Posted by Greatmushroom View Post
Hi! Newbie here,

Is there something wrong with me and/or my lil brother? Went to geylang first time a couple weeks ago. had my first casual encounter with a lady in one of the lorongs. lady was cute, fun and clearly a professional.

Only problem is that i didnt come, lady was definitely attractive.. but when during penetration( with cap ), i can only feel her body heat. needless to say, it was quite disappointing, totally wasn't anything i thought it'd feel. If anyone have similar situation pls share you're solution(s).
maybe you need to have the bonding first?
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Old 11-07-2023, 08:11 PM
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

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Originally Posted by Greatmushroom View Post
Hi! Newbie here,

Is there something wrong with me and/or my lil brother? Went to geylang first time a couple weeks ago. had my first casual encounter with a lady in one of the lorongs. lady was cute, fun and clearly a professional.

Only problem is that i didnt come, lady was definitely attractive.. but when during penetration( with cap ), i can only feel her body heat. needless to say, it was quite disappointing, totally wasn't anything i thought it'd feel. If anyone have similar situation pls share you're solution(s).
i get the same problem. i raw with my gf all the time of course i play the pull out game and am safe.

however now single i cap on no feel also
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

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Originally Posted by Greatmushroom View Post
Hi! Newbie here,

Is there something wrong with me and/or my lil brother? Went to geylang first time a couple weeks ago. had my first casual encounter with a lady in one of the lorongs. lady was cute, fun and clearly a professional.

Only problem is that i didnt come, lady was definitely attractive.. but when during penetration( with cap ), i can only feel her body heat. needless to say, it was quite disappointing, totally wasn't anything i thought it'd feel. If anyone have similar situation pls share you're solution(s).
i think mentally la u nervous la
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

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i get the same problem. i raw with my gf all the time of course i play the pull out game and am safe.

however now single i cap on no feel also
this is make sense. when we used to raw most of the time, wearing cap no feel lo.
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Re: Sumting Wong with me?

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i get the same problem. i raw with my gf all the time of course i play the pull out game and am safe.

however now single i cap on no feel also
me as well. pull out game is quite risky
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