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[Snorlaxxasd]

Hi, 19 y/o jc student here (male), and taking a levels this year. Was chasing after a crush of mine this year and long story short i got rejected (friends says she was leading me on but not 100% sure about that), anyways ive been really bothered about it, to the extent that the teachers are commenting that my writing is very affected and i cant seem to focus on my studies. Friend a recommended jacking off but while it gets hard i seem to have lost my ability to fire, friend b recommended alcohol which i went drinking a few times but i still feel crap and friend c recommended me to go have sex which im starting to seriously consider now because my a levels are weeks away and i cant focus. Is fwb a real thing or a legendary myth and if its real where can i find one? Or should i just sell some of my stuff on carousell then go geylang? I know this sounds quite stupid haha but apparently im really affected by a single breakup cuz im a big baby so was looking for advice. Would losing my virginity help me get over it quick or make it worse? And if so is fwb a real thing or should i resort to geylang? Sorry for the weird post haha any advice would be appreciated thanks

[fion.18]

if losing your virginity can help you write a better paper, then all the 哥哥s here they PHD holders liao leh.

FWB relationships are real but now you have nothing to offer. nothing to entice a lady so please study hard okay. focus on studying first and then slowly explore when you are older. jiayou

[ExBro]

Originally Posted by fion.18

if losing your virginity can help you write a better paper, then all the 哥哥s here they PHD holders liao leh.

FWB relationships are real but now you have nothing to offer. nothing to entice a lady so please study hard okay. focus on studying first and then slowly explore when you are older. jiayou

Gr8 advice, “With money, comes the honey” but not really, if u are moderately good looking, or fit or well preened, or an intellectual where u can show u r not at nitwit, I’m sure u will get what u want sooner or later.

Channel ur sexual energies into brain juice creation, along w your grades comes good job, income ability and asset built up.

Then u automatically become a babe magnet once u brush up on ur social skills and go mingle, learn to dance, visit the gym, improve your presentation skills (it’s surveyed that the fear of public speaking, is even greater than death, so once u not afraid to die, what’s there to fear?)

[spluder101]

Originally Posted by ExBro

Gr8 advice, “With money, comes the honey” but not really, if u are moderately good looking, or fit or well preened, or an intellectual where u can show u r not at nitwit, I’m sure u will get what u want sooner or later.

Channel ur sexual energies into brain juice creation, along w your grades comes good job, income ability and asset built up.

Then u automatically become a babe magnet once u brush up on ur social skills and go mingle, learn to dance, visit the gym, improve your presentation skills (it’s surveyed that the fear of public speaking, is even greater than death, so once u not afraid to die, what’s there to fear?)

So much wisdom, I try also but no luck bro.

[Jakebahas]

Originally Posted by Snorlaxxasd

Hi, 19 y/o jc student here (male), and taking a levels this year. Was chasing after a crush of mine this year and long story short i got rejected (friends says she was leading me on but not 100% sure about that), anyways ive been really bothered about it, to the extent that the teachers are commenting that my writing is very affected and i cant seem to focus on my studies. Friend a recommended jacking off but while it gets hard i seem to have lost my ability to fire, friend b recommended alcohol which i went drinking a few times but i still feel crap and friend c recommended me to go have sex which im starting to seriously consider now because my a levels are weeks away and i cant focus. Is fwb a real thing or a legendary myth and if its real where can i find one? Or should i just sell some of my stuff on carousell then go geylang? I know this sounds quite stupid haha but apparently im really affected by a single breakup cuz im a big baby so was looking for advice. Would losing my virginity help me get over it quick or make it worse? And if so is fwb a real thing or should i resort to geylang? Sorry for the weird post haha any advice would be appreciated thanks

Hey young man, I concur with the two senior Bros here about focusing on your studies and personal growth and development first. I think it's wise and most practical at this stage.

Personally, I don't think getting a FWB will help you at all because it'll just be a distraction now. If it's a good one and you're attracted, you'll keep thinking about her and end up not studying anyway. Or if you keep meeting her to F you'll also end up not having time and energy to study. If it's a bad one, you'll feel like crap and the wallowing continues. Actually, what you need is not an external activity to get over your crush but an internal change that'll help you really get over her.

Here's my humble advice to get over her: see her and the entire situation objectively - she's not interested and therefore she's not the one for you. If she's "yours" to be with, she would be interested. And IF it's true that she's been intentionally leading you on just for fun, then she's completely not worth your affections. She's just a selfish and self-centered person whom you don't want to waste your time, energy, and affections over.

Take care man and all the best for your revisions for A levels.

[squiggle]

Don’t let a girl affecting and ruin your life. You should either after degree/A level then date.

Don’t listen to your friends shitty advice on how to have good life, you need to live a healthy lifestyle like positive mind, good sleep, eat healthily and exercise then you will see the effect. Not everything works for others will works for you.

Yes, visiting geylang will help you ease some stress and sadness. But make sure you don’t get addicted after that, then every week want to go, will be another new problem to you. Finding FB/FWB will not be something easy and instantly.

Study well, find a good job, then you can have unlimited of gf and geylang later on.

[JizFries]

Originally Posted by Snorlaxxasd

Hi, 19 y/o jc student here (male), and taking a levels this year. Was chasing after a crush of mine this year and long story short i got rejected (friends says she was leading me on but not 100% sure about that), anyways ive been really bothered about it, to the extent that the teachers are commenting that my writing is very affected and i cant seem to focus on my studies. Friend a recommended jacking off but while it gets hard i seem to have lost my ability to fire, friend b recommended alcohol which i went drinking a few times but i still feel crap and friend c recommended me to go have sex which im starting to seriously consider now because my a levels are weeks away and i cant focus. Is fwb a real thing or a legendary myth and if its real where can i find one? Or should i just sell some of my stuff on carousell then go geylang? I know this sounds quite stupid haha but apparently im really affected by a single breakup cuz im a big baby so was looking for advice. Would losing my virginity help me get over it quick or make it worse? And if so is fwb a real thing or should i resort to geylang? Sorry for the weird post haha any advice would be appreciated thanks

boy ah.. is just one girl.. you want ruin your future just because of one girl. plus it's not a breakup if you didn't even start dating her yet right? there's lots of trees in the forest, no point getting you into a mistake you can't recover from in the future right? Once you finish up your studies, you still scare can't find a girlfriend meh.. Jiayou on your A levels!!!

[Topshag33]

Focus on study bro listen to your seniors.

like movie scarface mentioned..

[JuzOldGuy]

1 rejection and u make it sound like its a matter of life and death. i wonder how u would react when u finish school and face more rejections later on when u serve NS and then the working world

Originally Posted by Snorlaxxasd

Hi, 19 y/o jc student here (male), and taking a levels this year. Was chasing after a crush of mine this year and long story short i got rejected (friends says she was leading me on but not 100% sure about that), anyways ive been really bothered about it, to the extent that the teachers are commenting that my writing is very affected and i cant seem to focus on my studies. Friend a recommended jacking off but while it gets hard i seem to have lost my ability to fire, friend b recommended alcohol which i went drinking a few times but i still feel crap and friend c recommended me to go have sex which im starting to seriously consider now because my a levels are weeks away and i cant focus. Is fwb a real thing or a legendary myth and if its real where can i find one? Or should i just sell some of my stuff on carousell then go geylang? I know this sounds quite stupid haha but apparently im really affected by a single breakup cuz im a big baby so was looking for advice. Would losing my virginity help me get over it quick or make it worse? And if so is fwb a real thing or should i resort to geylang? Sorry for the weird post haha any advice would be appreciated thanks

[jabwemet]

All great advice here but here is one more.
I think getting a FWB is harder than just passing A levels. You are prob in an emo funk... I remember being young dumb and full of cum... hormones are uncontrollable.. and your timing could not be worse. Geylang is not gonna help, you don’t sound like the type that can control your urges (since u approached a girl for pat tor so close to the last important paper of your young adolescent life, timing bro!!)
If I was you.. I listen to some Radiohead or Backstreet Boys (or whatever you kids listen too as ‘emo songs’ nowadays) for a day.. wallow in self pity, get back up the next morning. Donkey punch yourself, go for a run/swim. And get back to your books.
After the exam, plenty of time for pussy/geylang