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Old 17-11-2019, 10:30 AM
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Possible Risk or Overthinking?

Dear experts,

Need an assessment for a recent encounter (my first time), and has got me really anxious. Happened in Malaysia.

Is it common practice to change condom when one goes limp? Felt a “change” in sensation as i was going 90% erect to about 50% — felt more like sore.

The csw reaction was quite fast as she immediately said here’s a new one after I pulled out. She held her head up and see (missionary). She did not seem angry / surprise, don’t know if this matters.

The condom ring was intact and still at the end of shaft. I held up the condom to inspect and was in one piece. The sex wasn’t rough and the first condom was used for about 7-8 minutes. Water-based lube was used.

I couldn’t really confirm as the room was dark and was a bit in shocked when she asked to change. they are bought fresh from an air-cond store before the visit.

In your opinion, did the first condom break?
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Old 17-11-2019, 10:53 AM
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

No the condom did not break.
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Old 17-11-2019, 10:58 AM
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

Hello and thanks so much for your quick reply.

Can I ask you elaborate more on the answer? It really did help with the anxiety but would love to know more. As it was my first time, everything was magnified — became super paranoid and anxious. I was super aware during the entire thing but just went blank the moment she said to change.

I did receive unprotected licks (3 licks) which I stopped immediately. Will this carry any high STD risk? It’s been 24 days, no symptoms which I give thanks everyday.
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Old 17-11-2019, 01:04 PM
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

Just get tested for peace of mind. You'll more likely to die of anxiety instead of std
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Old 17-11-2019, 01:12 PM
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

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Just get tested for peace of mind. You'll more likely to die of anxiety instead of std
Yes I will get tested. 1 more week to go.

Meantime, just wanna get some feedback on the situation. I’ve been advised that I’m overthinking and imagining a broken condom.

What do you think of the scenario?
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

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Hello and thanks so much for your quick reply.

Can I ask you elaborate more on the answer? It really did help with the anxiety but would love to know more. As it was my first time, everything was magnified — became super paranoid and anxious. I was super aware during the entire thing but just went blank the moment she said to change.

I did receive unprotected licks (3 licks) which I stopped immediately. Will this carry any high STD risk? It’s been 24 days, no symptoms which I give thanks everyday.
If you're worried about HIV your chance of catching the virus is remote.

However even if a condom remains intact throughout the process you can still catch viral STDs that are transmitted via skin to skin contact because a condom does not cover the base of the penile shaft or the scrotum eg Herpes and Warts.

As long as you are sexually active there is always a risk of catching something even if it's with a girlfriend or wife so the best course of action is to simply enjoy yourself and get tested on a regular basis. Every 6 months would be about right but you can go more often if you want if it gives added peace of mind.
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Old 17-11-2019, 04:42 PM
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

Following the incident, I actually went to get PEP. Doctor has given to me cause I said I’m not sure if the condom broke. I was highly distressed following the incident. Will test once I finish the PEP.

Can I ask for you to share on your analysis based on the situation? If it really broke, I would say the csw be more panic than me right?

As for other STDs — is there anything I can look out for? It’s past 3 weeks now. Will rest this together as well.
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Following the incident, I actually went to get PEP. Doctor has given to me cause I said I’m not sure if the condom broke. I was highly distressed following the incident. Will test once I finish the PEP.

Can I ask for you to share on your analysis based on the situation? If it really broke, I would say the csw be more panic than me right?

As for other STDs — is there anything I can look out for? It’s past 3 weeks now. Will rest this together as well.
U didnt have to waste $ for pep. Been thru ur position. Really unwarranted.
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Old 21-11-2019, 01:18 AM
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U didnt have to waste $ for pep. Been thru ur position. Really unwarranted.
Hey and thanks for your reply!

May I know your thoughts on the situation? I was afraid cause I was unsure if it broke!
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Old 22-11-2019, 09:28 PM
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

Normal to worry and panic, but the risk is really too low. The effects and cost of pep is really not worth it.
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Normal to worry and panic, but the risk is really too low. The effects and cost of pep is really not worth it.
As it was my first time visiting, I think everything was magnified.

May I know when did you test? Local doctors are saying immediately after PEP and 3 months from exposure will be conclusive.

However, overseas forums are saying 1 month after PEP / 3 months after PEP to be conclusive.
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

Can understand how you feel. It definitely take some courage to go and test too. But still is a must to test it else you will be living in fear.
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

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was unsure if it broke
I seriously think that the condom did not break and you are just over worrying yourself only
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

I am getting tested today. Just hope that I am indeed overreacting only. I shared this story with a few friends and all advised the same thing.

Just can’t wait to get it over and done with.
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Re: Possible Risk or Overthinking?

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