How long is sex supposed to last?

Asyveth · #1 08-12-2019, 01:06 AM

Read online a lot of survey that shows that the average time before ejaculaion is 5 minutes. I don't understand how people say they can have sex for 15-20mins. How to tahan when the sex is so good. Anyone can enlighten me? If I ejaculate in 5mins is it premature ejaculation?

SingleAA · #2 08-12-2019, 03:30 AM

Sex should last how long you want it to last. If it falls below your expectations, feels like you are unable to give your partner orgasms and causes you distress, then yes it is considered premature ejaculation.

There could be many reasons why it takes longer for others.

Counting foreplay and oral stimulation as time for sex
Old age, requiring more stimulation
Partner is not sparking attraction, requiring more stimulation
Pacing and edging, some discipline and self control is required

I would say don't worry about it. Unless your sex partners are complaining about getting pleasure. In which you can either work on improving your foreplay skills or improve your endurance.

In those porn films, there is 15-30 minutes of intercourse which is way longer than the average so it ensures everyone can get to climax properly.

babyjohnwong · #3 08-12-2019, 03:57 AM

Pump fast or slow
What position is used
Whether the pussy is tight enough or wet enough
Whether the body is desirable, some prefer slim, some bbw, some are ass lovers, some are boob lovers, some are face lovers
Foreplay, fetishes being played out or not, the level of sexcitement before the action
Chemistry between both or more, such as three or foursome
Whether the guy pcc a lot, his fitness level
The ambience and mentality / state of mind
Whether intoxicated or not
Any form of enhancements used
Age of the lovers
Sexperience level

There are just way too many factors can affect the performance and time taken
End of the day, it should feel good
Sextisfaction should be the ultimate goal, not the amount of time spent

Lawofhonesty · #4 08-12-2019, 04:35 AM

Always start with slow. When the girl started to moan louder and louder, go fast. After purposely go slow again. This way both will enjoy. My 2 cents thought

doombringer · #5 08-12-2019, 12:34 PM

it really depends on the girl, some girls are so loose that i cant feel anything 1 hour also cant cum, some girls very tight less than 5 mins cum already

euks · #6 08-12-2019, 01:15 PM

it is supposed to end when the feeling is no longer good for both or at least 1 party

ShaTauKokDog · #7 08-12-2019, 08:41 PM

Ts, you tried have a few alcoholic drinks! Guarrantte u can able to pump at least for a good half hour! The question is that your knee cap or back can take it or not?

Cheesebeast · #8 09-12-2019, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by ShaTauKokDog

Ts, you tried have a few alcoholic drinks! Guarrantte u can able to pump at least for a good half hour! The question is that your knee cap or back can take it or not?

True that bro. Lasting long also very physically taxing. One of the reasons why i gym regularly to build body strength - it really helps in endurance and performance

aczeta76 · #9 09-12-2019, 10:48 AM

The whole lovemaking can take hours...

Foreplay... make her want you. F her till first O, rest then suprise her by DATY again, F till 2nd O...rest, make her want you but dun penetrate... till she cannot tahan and begs for it.

Then u can ask for a long long BBBJ before satisfying her again and finish with a CIM.

The sex part is not only the pumping.. sex is the whole experience of making the girl want you more this time and also the next few times.

If u do it well, your touch will make her cum.. read October Man Sequence

unsung80 · #10 09-12-2019, 05:26 PM

Practise make perfect, however fitness and diet plays an important role. Stressful life can't last more than a minute for sure.

Girlpower · #11 09-12-2019, 05:33 PM