complicated mind when stepping in the 30s

[legolas99]

i am engaged/married with no kids. stepping into 30. bto coming soon. i still crave the freedom which i now have and really enjoy the solo chionging in bkk and pattaya (spendings my leaves there chionging and just slacking alone). i am dreadful of kids and the strain on finances that will come with them in the near future.

anybody in similar shoe or had passed that stage? do you still chiong and how you manage it?

[SlimButHeavy]

TS

Not sure of your physical condition.
For me, after 30 my dummy grow unnecessary and keep growing. I run a lot to keep myself slim and therefore chiong less spend less.

[legolas99]

live separately cuz bto haven come. i enjoy the carefree days in pattaya most. slack in the day drinking kopi and nighttime go agogo see and maybe book a girl for the night. i think i am lustful where a girl is not enough.

i dread the day when i lose the freedom to go chiong in pattaya during my leaves and fear the financial and time constraint if i were to have kids. childcare is so expensive alrdy. worst is to have that kind of child that can drive you to your grave.

i think it is the losing of freedom part and afraid of getting caught when i go hankypanky in bkk or pattaya that is confusing myself.

[chaoslord]

Freedom once married would be less. Once you have kids, less even more.

That's a fact for chiongsters

If you want to chiong, you need to be discreet about it. Example your phone should always be by your side with password kept confidential. It's hard to go oversees and chiong unless its like a guys trip or something. Wifu would surely smell a rat if you go Thailand alone.

[vitahealth]

Your responsibility end when your child reach 21 year old. So if you have the child at 34 year old you regain freedom at 55 year old. Still young to cheiong.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by legolas99

i am engaged/married with no kids. stepping into 30. bto coming soon. i still crave the freedom which i now have and really enjoy the solo chionging in bkk and pattaya (spendings my leaves there chionging and just slacking alone). i am dreadful of kids and the strain on finances that will come with them in the near future.

anybody in similar shoe or had passed that stage? do you still chiong and how you manage it?

Marriage is not compulsory. I'd advise you to skip the process altogether. It will definitely ruin your sex life.

[vitahealth]

Young people need a partner to apply for HDB

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Marriage is not compulsory. I'd advise you to skip the process altogether. It will definitely ruin your sex life.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by vitahealth

Young people need a partner to apply for HDB

Just wait till you're 35.

[HuangXiaoJi]

Originally Posted by vitahealth

Young people need a partner to apply for HDB

Get married for the sake of applying HDB?

[pinkhound]

Originally Posted by funboi

There are cases where the couple married or even not yet rom? but applied for BTO then hor when time come they either never complete the transaction or divorce mah. So end up wonders happen and the new BTO flat become single owner name.

Not say impossible to own that BTO flat but hor must see how things are done.

TS must think hard lah hor dun suka suka divorce leh. I suggest TS to start training on taojiak if really need that freedom n lay a strong foundation now for future taojiak 55555.

Example. Dear! B4 we married or stay together i already tell u mah i got buddies n we all very good kam ching once in a while we gather mah to lim beer n par kiu n golf overseas mah. Its a man thing leh. I lup u one lor. Don't worry lah i will report to u n take photos show u what we do where we go. Ok boh? Next time when their gf or wife join in then i bring u along lah.

A moment later.....fly into bkk liao....Video call dear say good night.....

OFF PHONE! Operations Thermae kick start 2359hrs, all brothers fall in and prepare for taojiak exercise!

2359 is a bit late, should start earlier

[Junction7]

Should be 0800

Originally Posted by pinkhound

2359 is a bit late, should start earlier

[EasterlyWind]

Originally Posted by vitahealth

Your responsibility end when your child reach 21 year old. So if you have the child at 34 year old you regain freedom at 55 year old. Still young to cheiong.

Got such rule meh?

[vitahealth]

No. Of course not.

Originally Posted by HuangXiaoJi

Get married for the sake of applying HDB?

[vitahealth]

Not rule. It is responsibility

Originally Posted by EasterlyWind

Got such rule meh?

[Nexwaver]

Originally Posted by vitahealth

Not rule. It is responsibility

That's good