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should i ever get married?? |
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I'm 38 and is married to my wife for 17 years.. sex now is almost non-existence.
I do eat outside and its strictly transactional. Like most bros here, I do miss the passion, heart fluttering feeling.. but its just too hard to maintain such a relationship when you have a family which takes up most of your time. All I can say is one of my biggest regret was getting married. If I can turn back time, I will chose to remain single till I die. However, one thing I'm sure of is I will never divorce my wife. this is the decision I made and I will see it out till I die. |
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WHy regret married? Why never want to divorce your wife? Since u miss the feeling and also regret? |
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Maybe its my pride, maybe its responsibility, maybe its because I don't want to hurt my wife, maybe it's because of our kid. Or maybe because I don't want to be the person at fault.. Divorce has never cross my mind. But I do secretly hope that she find someone better and leave me.. but she's too good a person to do that. After 17 years of marriage, we are like family members now. Our topics are all functional. I kind of forgotten what it feels like to be in love. I feel dead inside.. I admit I did tried to have a few FWB. But family commitments and the fear of hurting my wife made me end these relationship prematurely. |
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As humans we crave the excitement of romance, romantic gestures, tender love making. I don't know why there is an Asian mentality that as the marriage progresses all these are unimportant and even being frown upon like as if older couples no need romance? Living as family member devoid of romance kills the tender side of a human, the need to feel alive to feel attractive to your mate.
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MIN to EXC > POWER...5 Up my points n I will return immediately Pls PM me if I haven return favor |
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A good suggestion from bro hakone ...the bro shd consider this option if he really means wat he says..it's a win win situation for both he n his wife to get his wife to leave him
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Far too common among married men in SG. Either everyone is stressed out from life in SG or just got bored very quickly after marriage and look for outside for some spice in life.
The laws do not help resolve dead bedrooms as well. Eating out is the only real compromise and solution in most cases, even if it is a temporary thing. |
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Discovering an adultery will just lead to fight. And don’t forget, if your aim is to get a divorce, she can quote adultery in her case. As a husband, u are lose lose. The court alws side the woman in adultery cases. You may be freed from a bad marriage, but u will be burdened financially. |
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She didn’t want to leave me bcos she still loves me a lot. And she considered leaving me, as she believes I would be happier. She went to lawyer for advice also, and she told me she only have 1 request which is the house bcos it has the happy memories and is the only thing we “built” together. She wouldn’t ask one cent from me. I wanted to just quote adultery in my divorce papers. Just to make the process smoother and faster. But a lady friend from went thru a divorce advise me against so. Bcos of how the law will perceive against me. Anw, I’m still with my wife and we are continuing building our relationship. I hope yours can be repaired and became better |
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