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Old 08-01-2019, 11:28 AM
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Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

To all Samster here, i have a big issue here. Not sure does the bro here have the same or similar issue as me?
I have lost sexual interest with my wife, cant get it erected long enough. After few stroke it will turn soft.

When ever we start it take me awhile before i get erection, even i try to take Cialis, red bull, tongkat ali. it does have much effect on me. But when i goes to ML out there i have no issue with erection and performance even some of them may look less pretty than my wife. I still get erection and get it work with those ML. But when i come to my wife everything has turn bad.

Once we did try to watch porn to get our sexual arose, it work until she mention to stop watching porn and get on with our business. Somehow i just can't carry on.

Any advise from Bro how can i get this fix. I know is some kind of emotional issue.

Note: I still love and care for her... but when it come to sexual contact my little bro just not function as he should be, little bro is less excited.
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Old 08-01-2019, 12:08 PM
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

Psychological issue. Stop going to ML for a while and spend time with your wife. Go for a trip or something. Build up some mood before doing anything. Or try diff foreplay for a change.
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Old 08-01-2019, 12:36 PM
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

You are eating too much outside and you no longer enjoy your home cooked meals.

The solution is simple. stop going to restaurants and you'll soon find home cooking isn't that bad after all.

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To all Samster here, i have a big issue here. Not sure does the bro here have the same or similar issue as me?
I have lost sexual interest with my wife, cant get it erected long enough. After few stroke it will turn soft.

When ever we start it take me awhile before i get erection, even i try to take Cialis, red bull, tongkat ali. it does have much effect on me. But when i goes to ML out there i have no issue with erection and performance even some of them may look less pretty than my wife. I still get erection and get it work with those ML. But when i come to my wife everything has turn bad.

Once we did try to watch porn to get our sexual arose, it work until she mention to stop watching porn and get on with our business. Somehow i just can't carry on.

Any advise from Bro how can i get this fix. I know is some kind of emotional issue.

Note: I still love and care for her... but when it come to sexual contact my little bro just not function as he should be, little bro is less excited.
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Old 08-01-2019, 12:48 PM
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

If u get food poisoning outside you will better appreciate home cooked food as well.
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Old 08-01-2019, 03:22 PM
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

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Psychological issue. Stop going to ML for a while and spend time with your wife. Go for a trip or something. Build up some mood before doing anything. Or try diff foreplay for a change.
Thanks Bro for the advice... will stop cheong for a while... will be a good reader for now...

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You are eating too much outside and you no longer enjoy your home cooked meals.


The solution is simple. stop going to restaurants and you'll soon find home cooking isn't that bad after all.
Thanks Bro for the advice... will stop cheong for a while... will be a good reader for now...


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If u get food poisoning outside you will better appreciate home cooked food as well.
Haha... that's a risky idea to get food poison ....
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

Similar situation with you for awhile.but somehow me eating out has improved the sex life a bit. Maybe more confident cos I know can choose what I want to eat outside. Also, going on trips just the two helps a bit to rekindle the spark.
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

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helps a bit to rekindle the spark
This is very true especially because sometimes you just need to spice up your relationship else after a while it becomes mundane
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

I've seen this advice going around for quite some time.

Go for a trip with your wife, even a short trip together to nearby Bali, Phuket, Bintan helps. Relax, unwind and enjoy her company, have her try sexy lingerie if she is up to it
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Old 09-01-2019, 08:55 AM
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

There was a period where I had the same issue. Still the point my wife thought I ws having a affair and not interested in her anymore, and after i clarified myself she even ask me to go see a doc.

Subsequent attempts we took it slow. Tried a different approach for foreplay. Didn't rush into sex immediately. Felt each other and felt the love. Naturally the session ended good.

U must remember this is your wife, not prostitute. You love her and do it with love. It's more than just sex.
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Old 09-01-2019, 10:00 AM
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

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I've seen this advice going around for quite some time.

Go for a trip with your wife, even a short trip together to nearby Bali, Phuket, Bintan helps. Relax, unwind and enjoy her company, have her try sexy lingerie if she is up to it
Better still, bring her shopping for sexy lingerie, and help her change in the changing room. After shopping trip upon reaching home, tell her you want to see her try out the new lingeries again.
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

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Better still, bring her shopping for sexy lingerie, and help her change in the changing room. After shopping trip upon reaching home, tell her you want to see her try out the new lingeries again.
Ok Bro will try this out as well... this sound like a good idea
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

Option 1: do a WL/FL a few times and remember the scenes. Recall them when doing your wife.

Option 2: See a specialist who will refer you to a
psychologist.if you visit SGH, the psychologist is in the Urology Dept, so one stop. He will teach you how to use you mind to get it up again with your wife.

Both worked. Verified.

A third method will be to do an ugly, below average FL. Use bbbj to wake 2ic.

When that is done, your wife will trigger your 2ic
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

Been thru before where sex with wife takes very long to cum but xmm outside very fast... Now have to use delay spray wen eat outside.
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Re: Lost Interest with wife, how fix this issue?

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Option 1: do a WL/FL a few times and remember the scenes. Recall them when doing your wife.

Option 2: See a specialist who will refer you to a
psychologist.if you visit SGH, the psychologist is in the Urology Dept, so one stop. He will teach you how to use you mind to get it up again with your wife.

Both worked. Verified.

A third method will be to do an ugly, below average FL. Use bbbj to wake 2ic.

When that is done, your wife will trigger your 2ic
Very helpful advise i try opt 1 before somehow didnt work out... by as for opt 2 is a good try ... any contact i can arrange for an appointment? any idea on the price as well?
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Been thru before where sex with wife takes very long to cum but xmm outside very fast... Now have to use delay spray wen eat outside.
my issue i cant even get to hard enf to go in to do the job... turn numb very quickly even before goes into the task
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