Gorgeous wife but thinks of others during sex

[derit]

Originally Posted by secretgarden

Just got married about a year ago with my wife whom we dated for about 6 years prior. She’s quite attractive and technically we do have have fun in bed. But in the recent year or so i have been thinking of other women during our intimate times. I used to have a couple of SBs before we got married and now seemed like more often than i hope to, think of them and want to contact them back. I do love my wife but sexually i cannot control leh.

Any bros or sis out there going through the same? And do we really just have to resign to the fact that marriage is like that? Sorry if i’m boring you guys.

OK. I was like you.

Why not tell yr wife that you don't get enough out of sex? Then work out something to make sex better.

Or buy sex toy from Amazon, and slot dick in when you just die die want to fuck a whole.

[derit]

Go to Amazon and search for Doc Johnson.

[kick_ass]

many bros mentioned, you still hv a gd marriage. so do cherish it.
go for paid sex if needed. some said, affair is cheaper as dun need to pay for sex, but they always forget, affair need to pay other stuffs like meals etc etc. unless u sibei hamsome
imo, if got caught, i believe wife will likely forgive u for paid sex than affair

[zl1983]

Originally Posted by ourworld

Oooo,,,, I guess I know your problem,,,
A few reasons wor,,,
Guess only har!

You are probably lacking that kinda passionate feel,,
Which for a guy is quite common la,,,
Guys are usually not that emotional attached compare to girls,,
The main difference between a guy and a girl is;
A girl will let him fuck her when she loves him,,
A guy will fall in love with her, after he fucks her,,
So you probably emotionally attach to too many people,,

You don’t make love with your wife,,
You are just having Sex with her,,,
Many people confuse about making love and having sex,,

Alternatively, you need to switch up your sex,,,
Bedroom sex is too boring for you le,,
You lack of that excitement when having sex with your wife
That’s why you think of others,,,

It is quite common thou,, for a guy,,
I ever read an article about whether the guy is considered cheating on his wife when he starts fantasizing other ladies while they are having sex,,,
Hahaha,,, a very interesting article,,
And the answer is, Yes! Hahaha,,,
The guy is not emotionally and physiological attached to his wife,,
And if this prolong, sooner or later, he will then also physically unfaithful to the partner,,
He was driven by his physiological thoughts and eventually seek for other ladies to achieve this,,,

So I suggest you can try something new with your wife when comes to sex,,

well said.. from the master..

[zl1983]

Originally Posted by funboi

Sex is easy, make love requires skills and fuck her brains out is a challenge.

super like this line bro..

[JideForce]

TS got any pic of your gorgeous wife?

[rey69]

Or like japanese, couple swinging ?

[rey69]

Originally Posted by unsung80

hahaha you should find more bonding time with your sexy colleagues

Not bonding, is bonking time with sexy colleagues.

[secretgarden]

Dun have pple start thread for concerns den wanna exploit pple’s wife one la. Unless u willing to sacrafice ur wife too. But of course there are pple tat cant even get married. Different level. Sorry for being harsh. But tats life.

[Vanda]

Originally Posted by kick_ass

many bros mentioned, you still hv a gd marriage. so do cherish it.
go for paid sex if needed. some said, affair is cheaper as dun need to pay for sex, but they always forget, affair need to pay other stuffs like meals etc etc. unless u sibei hamsome
imo, if got caught, i believe wife will likely forgive u for paid sex than affair

Like what old saying. Destroying a marriage is worse than destroying ten temples

[sgbond]

Originally Posted by Vanda

There is such thing that is called karma is real. You will be laughing off at it when you are not bitten. Once you are bitten, you will start to appreciate. I am human too but i strongly advise to against taking married women. Finding prositute have lesser karma than having sex with married women. I will not go against your opinion and control on how you going to control your urge. But finding a less materialistic and pretty wifey very hard to come by.
Make love to your wife instead and find some excitement oversea trip to bring spark your sexual life. You will regret if you lose it

Well said and I agreed.

There is a saying "you sow your seeds and reap the rewards"

[marianna]

Originally Posted by HeyLisa

You shld try out something different with your wife.
Doing naughty things together enhance the relationship!

naughty boy always gets the worm.

Yes, woman always like naughty snakes.

[Siriusam]

i know exactly what ure going thru cuz i was also in the same boat as u. hv a beautiful and sexy wife and we are also quite adventurous in bed but i cannot stop fantasizing about other girls, sometimes even when we are having sex..

so i ended up cheating on her multiple times with many different SYTs until we were on the brink of divorce and breaking up the family and everything.. then i came to truly realize that such lust is shortlived and happiness is fleeting.. at the end of the day ur family is what matters most and it will be a huge shame if u lost it due to your philandering ways. But such revelation didn't stop me from fantasizing still so nowadays, instead of getting into extra-marital affairs.. i just get my quick fix from fuck and fuck off (pay per meet), be it from massage parlors or FL..

having affairs are costly and dangerous but u can still live ur double life with ONS.. just my 2 cents.

[WontMeetFans]

Originally Posted by marianna

naughty boy always gets the worm.

Yes, woman always like naughty snakes.

Fully agreed and well said.

[Tengkor]

Originally Posted by marianna

woman always like naughty snakes

Seems like it