Picked up many tips from this great thread here, all thanks to Bro WB.
Cheers!
Quote:
Originally Posted by kweeheng
Bro WB
With a big field of opportunity to pick up gals also mean plenty of strategies and patience.
Your guru highlighted a very important point about common mistakes made by men. Man always like to tell the gal you like how you feel about her and that can be a turn off for the gal. If the gal is a best friend then maybe time to lose her after telling her how you feel about her.
Bro WB always emphasized self-mastery traits as the key to get gals. The guy who possessed the high level of self-mastery stand to gain.
Guy must always view himself as the ultimate PRIZE.
As for alpha male then the next post explain quite detail what alpha male is about.
Hope to comment more and pickup tips from here as I read on.
Sounded like the stock market today what you written in 2011. Unsure if now is the best time to pick up some bargain stock?
Was reading your post from a guru about obsession with a particular gal.
That happened to many ppl including me.
I have to agree with the guru and sure way to forget is to go out and enjoy. Get to know 200 gals and so will not bother to remember one gal.
Get a busy schedule and just go on with life. This way is easier said than done when your brain is not decisive enough.
Anyway men do need to get over some broken love affaird and heart broken to realized this world is round.
Happy holidays to all.
Bye now.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good afternoon,
Asian stock markets r sinking, hehehe. Tomorrow could be a good time to pick up some bargains.
BTW, CL is pulling out all stops to KC me. I spoke w/ her 41 yo mom who would be very happy if I could keep CL indefinitely! I'm now very resistant to KC bcos I'm in multiple RS n am still looking for younger n better ones.
I'm not suffering from ONEITIS, but MANYITIS, haha.
At this time I would like to share a recent email from another Ang Moh guru on...what else,
How to Stop Obsessing Over a Girl
Friday, 20 May, 2011 6:21 AM
From: Bro SSP
To: Bro Warbird
I've been there myself...
Sometimes you can't STOP thinking about a girl.
You *know* it's not going to work.
Yet you can't seem to get her out of your mind.
Don't worry. This is a common thing. It happens to
a lot of guys.
In fact, there's a term for it --> "ONE-ITIS."
One-itis is a horrible feeling.
It's an obsessive thought pattern you can't eliminate.
Now, you probably already know this. ANY obsession isn't
a healthy attitude to have.
Thinking about a girl as "The One" is REALLY bad...
...Especially when she doesn't feel the same way.
This makes you miss out on a number of opportunities with
women who COULD great to date.
I'm going to be honest.
We've all experienced one-itis.
It could a girl from a past relationship
It might be a a woman who is "just friends",
It could that girl Jill who works in the corner office.
My point is we guys always have one or two girls who we
can't stop thinking about.
What's the answer?
Simple.
Start dating OTHER women. Even if you think you're
*destined* to be with this single girl.
Why?
Because dating gives clarity. It provides OPTIONS.
It's easy to put a girl on a pedestal when you don't
have anyone else in your life.
Bottom line. Start meeting other women.
They could be female friends, "hook-up" partners, or
someone in between.
The important thing is to fill your life with different
women.
You don't have to sleep with every one.
Instead you're keeping your options open.
Here's why:
1) You won't get hung up on one particular woman
2) You'll be happier because you have a busy life filled
with interesting people
3) You'll be more attractive to women because they see you
as an important guy who is "pre-selected" by females
With a lot of women, you won't have time to think about
The One.
Plus it's like doing a Jedi-Mind Trick on this girl.
Once she realizes she's replaceable, she'll STOP acting
like a drama queen and/or stringing you along.
thanks bro again for sharing...recently was suffering from the one-itis...
in the end i switch my focus to her fren...end up bonking the fren...
guess having multiple targets helps...but am afraid will suffer the same syndrome on the fren so haha...guess its a never-ending cycle...
the words from gurus are surreal and help to pinpoint my problem...we need to speak without monotony and use inflection.
So infection is not a dirty word.
Thanks again bro.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by warbird
Is the tone of voice you're using with women
KILLING your chances of attracting them? If so, the good news is
that you can reverse your fortune RIGHT NOW...
IS YOUR INFLECTION INFECTED?
They say that some ridiculously high percentage of communication is
non-verbal.
That percentage varies based on which study you read, but one
thing's for sure: It's not just the words you use themselves that
matter.
By now you've heard enough about "body language" and such, but
today I want to address one VERY KEY specific piece of the puzzle
in terms of the INFLECTION of your voice when you're talking to
women.
"Inflection", of course, refers to HOW you deliver your words. And
the tone and cadence of what you say is a big part of "non verbal"
communication, no doubt.
Now, I'm not altogether convinced that it's a coincidence that
"inflection" is just one letter off from "infection". After all,
the inflection many of us use when talking to women is pretty sick
indeed...and not in the good way.
In fact, I don't think it's too strong a statement to say that HOW
you speak to women could be the SINGLE BIGGEST reason why you're
getting NOWHERE with so many of them, if that's the case.
This could especially be true if you're often left in the dust
wondering what on Earth went wrong with a woman. You feel like you
SAID the right words, made the right moves, etc.
"Infected inflection" might very well be the culprit.
I've known for ages how powerful this factor is, but it wasn't
until a recent coaching call with a Ten-Plus guy that I was left to
ponder the full-on gravitas of it all.
My friend on the telephone and I had just about everything going
for him in life, except he couldn't quite get women to return his
calls as consistently as he would have liked.
A few days prior to one of our calls he'd gathered up the nerve to
approach a very confident hottie who had just gotten off of her
1000cc sportbike.
You can pretty much picture the scene. A firebreathing superbike
pulls to a halt outside, off comes the helmet...and she brushes back
her long, flowing blonde hair.
Very nice. But also NOT the least intimidating chick in the world
to approach. A woman like that typically has ZERO TOLERANCE for
wimpy dudes.
Sure enough, our hero approaches her, makes conversation with her,
and gets her number. Outstanding. So far, so good.
So he calls her a couple of days later and leaves her a voicemail.
No response...even after 48 hours.
She had seemed interested when he met her, so he was wondering what
he could have possibly said in a simple voicemail to crater his
chances.
I asked him to tell me what his message to her sounded like.
When I heard the words, a few too many of them were "just"...no
doubt. And as you've read from me recently, that doesn't generally
work in one's favor with regard to talking to women.
But what hit me between the eyes was the INFLECTION of his voice as
he recounted his message to "Moto Chick".
Suddenly, I knew why she hadn't returned his call.
I recommended that he wait about another day and then leave her a
SECOND voice mail (figuring she'd likely not answer the phone since
that first message had disinterested her).
I also suggested some very concrete changes in HOW he talked as he
left the message.
Two days later, "Moto Chick" returned his second call and they
happily went out together.
What made the difference?
Now ask yourself, who was in CONTROL during each of those
respective conversations?
Sure...it was whoever had MORE OPTIONS.
So let's consider for a minute the last time someone tried to sell
you something that was in LOW demand. You know, something you may
in fact had not really wanted all that much anyway.
What was the INFLECTION of the salesguy's voice?
My guess that he talked fast, possibly in a higher pitch than he
might during "normal" conversation, and that each sentence ended
with an upturn in the tone of his voice.
And you quite probably detected that he was attempting to be
particularly "nice"...as if he was "walking on eggshells" to keep
from scaring you away (and therefore losing a potential sale).
What you were hearing was the voice of a DESPERATE, NEEDY man whose
family needed food on the table.
Okay, so now consider the last time you went somewhere to happily
buy the newest, latest and greatest iPhone, video game or AMG
Mercedes.
What was the inflection of THAT salesguy's voice like?
My guess is that it was more calm and reserved. Or maybe he even
gave you bold, direct answers to questions you asked...no "walking on
eggshells" necessary.
No matter what, there was no "fear of loss" to be detected
anywhere. In fact, you may have even forgotten that he was even
paid on commission there for a second.
Indeed...he wasn't really "selling". His job was simply to help YOU
buy...if you were actually fortunate enough to get there on time
before his supply ran out.
Now let's get back to my friend and "Moto Chick".
What was the difference between our hero's first (unsuccessful)
voicemail and the second (successful) one?
The difference in his voice inflection was EXACTLY the difference
between the first salesguy's voice and the second one's voice.
That's all it took. The words were actually very similar in
meaning...but the INFLECTION was cured of its infection.
From thh old post below, I congratulate you on your superb collection of Syts. I hope you were successful with this dame born 1992.
BTW, I am assuming 7W means 70k?
So did she came with her mother and you had a 3p?
Cheers and happy weekend.
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Originally Posted by warbird
I previously mentioned that really chio, educated non-WL PRC pussies don't want to come here...
Couple of wks ago, I adopted a new tactic which has worked very well n most of these SYTs now say yes! I love searching for n proposing to every SYT of my type in PRC!! Online of course.
Recently I made ctc w/ a very chio n cute 18 yo YW (born Nov 1992)1st yr uni student. She has the face of a child but body of a voluptuous woman. 176, 60 kg, very fair n proportionate figure w/ natural C n shapely perky butt. Her hip measurement should be over 36.5 but she is not sure. I asked her to get a tape n measure it. hehe. I know she is a bit too tall for me. Why not? Height doesn't matter when we make love lying down.
My new strategy is to establish rapport w/ them before revealing that I'm in SG n that I'm a lao chi ko pek. I asked how much to BY her in China n she said 5W一月 配车which is well above average. I replied OK. Then I reveal my age n height, weight, etc. She was quite surprised n shocked...I requested video calling to show that I'm very healthy, not bald n not grotesque looking...also to reveal my voice n confident inflection...
One thing I learn from interacting w/ these 17-19 yo gals is that one must be assertive n dominant. They like it! The other insight is that almost all these young gals, even the prettiest ones, r a bit insecure abt their looks. At first YW was hesitant w/ 视频...不过我现在没化妆 没梳头发...I said 没事的 我还穿睡衣...she is very young n very attractive w/o makeup n her voice very sweet n youthful. And she has very sexy body, very fair w/ long nice legs...my didi is swollen...I need to meet her asap. She sent me more photos w/ body shots, etc. I compliment her: 很漂亮！我喜欢高挑又白的女孩子。
Then I told her I'm in SG n want her here. She said no at 1st, no passport, parents wont let her, etc. I told her how safe SG is n that she must come...she wants me to go China n bring her here. I said no as it's very safe journey. Then she wants her mom to accompany her. I asked what if she knows our RS, she replied it would be OK. I guess PRC parents r very understanding n liberal...I'll try to convince her to come along.
I just told her to apply for a passport tomorrow. BTW, she is demanding 7w RMB a month, I said 6W, all expenses paid. I love to negotiate even though she is worth much more., hehehe. She is 18, very chio, tall, fair n very sexy...n a non-WL n a current uni student. At this time, I don't want to ask for her closeup pussy shots as she may think I'm a pervert.
YW just sent me more photos showing her deep cleavage n sexy body as I'm typing this post. There is even one in her high school uniform, taken last yr. Wow!
No, I hv not forgotten CL n others...as I suffers from MANYITIS.
Recently, I hv been to some joints including the famed LV. I'm most disappointed w/ the quality of gals. Where got chio n sexy SYTs? I hv to resort to inviting my type of gals to come here.
I want to make my gal cum with many orgasms after reading the forum below.
Thank you for a magnificent thread.
Gals often likes man with bad traits and the badass the more the gals love.
So I learned now.
Cheers.
Quote:
Originally Posted by warbird
I hv mentioned the importance of giving a gal COS in the past. It's never easy n I'm still learning...
A "sexual mastery" guru just sent me the following advice:
Female Orgasm: 3 Essential Tips
There are three simple steps you can
take that will force virtually ANY woman to have a
powerful orgasm... no matter what else you are
doing or not doing in the bedroom.
I've been working to boil down the most
important aspects of "how to give a girl an
orgasm"...
I'm talking about the ESSENTIALS... the
most important factors that are underneath ALL
of the best techniques...
Not just the technique itself, but WHY IT
WORKS.
Once you have this stuff MASTERED, you can do
whatever you want to do, "in the moment" and still
make it work... WITHOUT having to imitate some
other guy.
One of the things that KILLS sexual tension,
attraction, and arousal in a woman is when you
are TRYING TOO HARD TO PLEASE HER.
Think about that for a minute, because it's
kind of counter-intuitive.
Because you are always hearing the message
that "women want a lover who puts HER needs first,
and who isn't selfish in bed."
And guess what?
That statement is WRONG.
Sure it's the kind of thing that women will
nod in agreement to if you say it... but really,
if you talk to them more, if you dig deeper,
they will admit that they don't want a guy who is
just catering to her needs...
She wants YOU to enjoy the experience just as
much as you want HER to enjoy the experience.
She doesn't want a guy who is so wrapped up
in whether or not SHE is enjoying it, that he
acts nervous by checking in all the time, or gives
away all of his masculine power to her by looking
to her for what needs to happen next for her to
come.
And that thing about how women don't like men
who are "selfish in bed"...
That's not quite right either.
Now before you go off and and become the guy
who finishes in three pumps and then goes to order
a pizza...
That's NOT what I'm talking about.
What I AM talking about is a man who KNOWS
what he wants and isn't afraid to get his woman
to do those things for his pleasure.
Women are turned on by men who are masculine
and confident enough to be unashamed of what they
want, and GO FOR IT.
So here's my problem-- the focus of these
newsletters is generally how to turn HER on, how
to give HER great orgasms, how to make HER feel
great.
But I want to make sure, along the way, you
understand that you have to make sure that YOU
are getting YOUR needs met too! That you are
getting everything you want out of it, and not
afraid to tell her what you want her to do for
your pleasure.
IMPORTANT: You must GET that this will
also make sex MUCH better for HER too.
So when I set out to find the most basic things
that you need to give any woman an orgasm-- even
if your wife or girlfriend is a "hard case" who
has never had an orgasm before... I had to get
beyond that stuff about just catering to her.
In other words-- you shouldn't need to go
down on her for hours... UNLESS you love to go down
on her for hours...
And chances are, if it's making her come and
scream like a banshee then you DO love it...
A big thank you to all samsters who have posted here.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by RedDoorz
Bro WB
The above post from guru makes sense although I have not encountered with my gal.
So this XW push you away when she was having big climax orgasm. Really couldn't imagine although my gal will be frustrated if i become flaccid before she come.
Thank you for all hard work and I have plenty to learn in your auspicious thread.
Bye again!!
Bro, thanks.
That was a long time ago. XW would push me away after I had given her a powerful n violent clitoral orgasm. Her clit became very sensitive. I had learned to be a lot more gentle or use my tongue to give her more clitoral orgasms after the initial one.
After 6 months, she started to love penetrative vaginal orgasms more as it's continuous, deeper, whole-body and intense. She could go insane!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by RedDoorz
Bro WB
Happy Sunday!!!
Looks like it is the same now with global markets declining and bear markets ruling. Recently have not read about your comment on the markets? So your investment doing well?
Are you still following Getty's advice? Buy when everyone is selling and hold on when everyone is buying?
Why should your baoee dun allow you to f**k unless she is having her monthly period or ill? I wonder too?
Thanks and cheers.
Bro, tks for the post.
Yes, of course. Sometimes it's not so easy as it takes a lot of emotional mastery. It's human to get fearful when the market is collapsing.
Read Getty's book 20 times.
Quote:
Originally Posted by kweeheng
Bro WB
With a big field of opportunity to pick up gals also mean plenty of strategies and patience.
Your guru highlighted a very important point about common mistakes made by men. Man always like to tell the gal you like how you feel about her and that can be a turn off for the gal. If the gal is a best friend then maybe time to lose her after telling her how you feel about her.
Bro WB always emphasized self-mastery traits as the key to get gals. The guy who possessed the high level of self-mastery stand to gain.
Guy must always view himself as the ultimate PRIZE.
As for alpha male then the next post explain quite detail what alpha male is about.
Hope to comment more and pickup tips from here as I read on.
Bless bro WB and all reading here.
Bro, tks.
If you don't believe you're the ultimate prize, you will NEVER get and keep the ultimate girl.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Delfi
BRO WB
Sounded like the stock market today what you written in 2011. Unsure if now is the best time to pick up some bargain stock?
Was reading your post from a guru about obsession with a particular gal.
That happened to many ppl including me.
I have to agree with the guru and sure way to forget is to go out and enjoy. Get to know 200 gals and so will not bother to remember one gal.
Get a busy schedule and just go on with life. This way is easier said than done when your brain is not decisive enough.
Anyway men do need to get over some broken love affaird and heart broken to realized this world is round.
Happy holidays to all.
Bye now.
Bro, tks for your post.
Oneitis is a very common and intractable disease. The cure is having many GFs or LPs.
Quote:
Originally Posted by fuyao
Bro WB
thanks bro again for sharing...recently was suffering from the one-itis...
in the end i switch my focus to her fren...end up bonking the fren...
guess having multiple targets helps...but am afraid will suffer the same syndrome on the fren so haha...guess its a never-ending cycle...
the words from gurus are surreal and help to pinpoint my problem...we need to speak without monotony and use inflection.
So infection is not a dirty word.
Thanks again bro.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Good for u!
A man's deep voice and the right tonality and inflection can be very attractive to women.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Delfi
Bro WB
What an auspicious day today.
From thh old post below, I congratulate you on your superb collection of Syts. I hope you were successful with this dame born 1992.
BTW, I am assuming 7W means 70k?
So did she came with her mother and you had a 3p?
Cheers and happy weekend.
Bro, tks.
Yeah, she wanted 70k rmb a month. No, I didn't want her mom.
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Originally Posted by Novichok
Bro WB
Good Afternoon!
I want to make my gal cum with many orgasms after reading the forum below.
Thank you for a magnificent thread.
Gals often likes man with bad traits and the badass the more the gals love.
So I learned now.
Cheers.
Bro, tks for your post.
You can do it.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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