thai girlfriend request monetary help

[Qx46R]

hi, i am seeking advise on whether to send the money or not. i have known this lady for a few years now but we had only recently become a couple and she requested me to help her out this/next month as she quit her job in malaysia and need money. however, when i try to ask her why she quit and why she need the money, only vague answer like cannot tahan client and work always busy. kind of feel like she is always trying to avoid talking about her exact work with me. most of the time, she always ask about my job and pay, however when we are out on date together we always split the bill. so hoping that some experienced samster can share their experience and advice

[sexcision]

My opinion, the information your written already directed us to the impression that she is very concern on your salary. As such, the answer you will recieve here will be very obvious.
She is your gf and no one here know her better than you. Anyway it also depends on how much she ask for. 1 thing can be sure thou. It will never ends lol

[snooker]

Not all thai girl are bad but constantly, we meet with those working in the night life and their main objective is $$

Her reasons for $$ will be as follows:
1) family sick
2) house need repair
3) family caught by police, need bail/bribe
4) flood ruin crops
5) not enough $$ to pay school fees (herself, bro/sister)
6) friend run off with her $$

Actual reason is:
She buy herself nice clothing and loves to drink with friends
She is supporting her drug addict boyfriend
She need $$ to buy drug for herself

[Qx46R]

Originally Posted by snooker

Not all thai girl are bad but constantly, we meet with those working in the night life and their main objective is $$

Her reasons for $$ will be as follows:
1) family sick
2) house need repair
3) family caught by police, need bail/bribe
4) flood ruin crops
5) not enough $$ to pay school fees (herself, bro/sister)
6) friend run off with her $$

Actual reason is:
She buy herself nice clothing and loves to drink with friends
She is supporting her drug addict boyfriend
She need $$ to buy drug for herself

her reason is she need to pay tax first before she can recieve her final pay so she is having cashflow issue for now. she work in malaysia, but i find this reason weird weird

[FreebiezWanker]

Pls post her pic here n see how many samsters "date" her before also.

Actually if u have been fucking her, why need to upgrade to bf/gf status? Give status liao u need to take care her.

[Qx46R]

Originally Posted by 55055

Have you visit her before in Thailand? How much she’s asking if you don’t mind revealing it here.

asking for 1k ringgit. the amount is not much but her reason just sound too weird to me. only met with her here in sg n malaysia. nvr visit her in thailand before

[chaoslord]

Considering you know her for a few years, 1k ringgitt is not alot. The basic question is do you trust her?

Agree with fellow samster - once you give status as gf, you would need to take care of her. Think of it as pocket money in return for sex.

[newton]

The 1st and only golden rule in this type of long distance relationship should be to always protect yourself and don't place yourself in any situation that can compromise your happiness and most importantly, your finances.

[nuclearkid]

My advice to such requests is to forget it. It's not a lot this time round but the request will come again. We can have a side bet on that.

[dyelook]

huh? malaysia got pay work tax only get final pay de meh? 1st time hear only..
but if you fucked her before then just part with the sgd300 lah... consider it as gf angpow for her loh... save yourself from headache & time asking around... the more you ask the more conclusion you jump to...

[JOGK]

You know her better than us here
You have to make you own decision
Through your own judgement
I have a gf similiar to yours
But she always rejects my help
Because i told her i aint a rich guy
Even when going out with her
She didnt want me to waste my money
This is what i called REAL LOVE
sounds unbelievable but its true
Test her more if you have doubts about her
Until your doubts are clear
Good luck bro

[chongqing]

If me I will not give. Just use the money and bonk other girls.

[EnolaGay]

Ur own GF n $300 only u question so much?? OMG!!!

TS, better just let her go n u go GL better. Cheap n wont borrow $ frm u.

[hawkeye007]

Originally Posted by Qx46R

asking for 1k ringgit. the amount is not much but her reason just sound too weird to me. only met with her here in sg n malaysia. nvr visit her in thailand before

It is only RM1,000. This money spent, will probably allow u to gain a better insight into how she is as a person, her characteristics and whether she is really into you, or just toying around with you for your money...

Whichever the outcome, whether possible or negative, it is money well-spent...

[Slowpump]

Yes agree with what the other learned bros are saying. Basically hope you don't mind me saying but its a normal relationship cycle especially with thai, indo, viet, kampuchea, pinay females. If its not much and you can well afford it, its up to you to play along or not. But please open your eyes big big and know that at the side, these girls have other lobangs.