Looking for a Lover for My Husband

[BroRelax]

Originally Posted by Typotypo123

Hello! I am joining this forum because I don't know where else to go. I hope I could find what I'm looking for, or at least some advice. So here goes.
Because of the complicated situation we're in (I'm truly sorry I can't share more at the moment, but it doesn't involve anything wrong on his side), I am sincerely looking for a lover for my husband. I'm not really sure about the terminologies, but I think it can be as an SB, FWB, or whatnot.
Knowing my husband (he is a kind, affectionate, and respectful person), I prefer someone who is really in need of money/companion. True feelings are not necessary, but respect is a must. Being able to hold simple conversations is also rather important. To be clear, I'm not looking for something free of charge, but it would be great if it's not purely transactional like those provided by traditional sex workers.

If anyone is interested, please pm me or email [email protected]. Any advice is also appreciated. Thanks so much beforehand!

Trying to set ip a honey trap on your hubby? If you are successful, then your hubby will be in shit during the divorce as probably you will have all the evidence against him.

[Typotypo123]

Originally Posted by BroRelax

Trying to set ip a honey trap on your hubby? If you are successful, then your hubby will be in shit during the divorce as probably you will have all the evidence against him.

Nope, this is all in good intention for our relationship and no thoughts of divorce at all

[Rufuslife]

Originally Posted by TheGreatArtiste

Undertable??? Be weary of this guy. My fren kena hiong $ by him. Stay Hougang Ave 8 wan.

Agreed. In any platform even in sbf, u navigate at your own risk, and be mindful of risky ppl trying to scam you. Cannot guarantee all who register in the website are genuine.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by Typotypo123

Nope, this is all in good intention for our relationship and no thoughts of divorce at all

All the assumption coming in now 😂.
My assumption is that TS due to whatever reason is unable to provide his Husband which what he needs(sex, companionship etc)
Therefore being an understanding Wife, he is finding him a FB to tide him thru. Tio bo?

Also at least she knows who he’s fucking and doing rather than him doing behind her back.

[fion.18]

sounds dodgy to me le.

if you really wanna find an outlet for your husband to release. why don’t you go book a pay per session escort. find him a pretty and sexy girl and let him enjoy that session, pay, fuck and leave. repeat but with other girls if need be.

by finding him a companion, sb or lover. what if he falls in love? you did mention your husband is affectionate and you must know that feelings can be cultivated over time. as a wife who says she is not looking for a divorce, at least for me, the last i want is to facilitate my husband developing feelings for anyone else but me.

i’m okay to close one eye if he goes get his itch scratched outside with those one off paid sex. but to actually go through all these trouble to find him a lover and risk my marriage when i still obviously want it, wow, no. Never.

[Typotypo123]

Originally Posted by sexcision

All the assumption coming in now 😂.
My assumption is that TS due to whatever reason is unable to provide his Husband which what he needs(sex, companionship etc)
Therefore being an understanding Wife, he is finding him a FB to tide him thru. Tio bo?

Also at least she knows who he’s fucking and doing rather than him doing behind her back.

That's the gist of it There's a lot more complicated history and situations surrounding this (which I can't share), but this is something I do because I love him

I understand this seems suspicious, and thanks for all the concerns However, I'm sincerely looking for one

[Optimus_Prime]

I've seen a lot of things on sbf. But this takes the cake.

[armour88]

This sounds dodgy, I cannot fathom any reason whatsoever, for a woman to find a lover for him, to love to fuck, because she "loves" him. Even if its as extreme as you are dying, or have cancer or your got some issues with your vagina, finding a lover for him is love him? What fucking nonsense.

I'm no women, but come on la, this is so over the top. If he loves you, he would not be even thinking of having someone else, especially if its complicated. A wife asking someone even sounds hurtful to me, more so its you knowing your husband fucking a woman's brains out while you're feeling heartbroken.

Either he's brainwashed you enough or you want to fuck another women because you're lesbian. If not then you must have cheated and want to repay by finding a lover for him.

Please don't say you're doing this cause of love, its cheapening that word.

[Typotypo123]

Originally Posted by armour88

This sounds dodgy, I cannot fathom any reason whatsoever, for a woman to find a lover for him, to love to fuck, because she "loves" him. Even if its as extreme as you are dying, or have cancer or your got some issues with your vagina, finding a lover for him is love him? What fucking nonsense.

I'm no women, but come on la, this is so over the top. If he loves you, he would not be even thinking of having someone else, especially if its complicated. A wife asking someone even sounds hurtful to me, more so its you knowing your husband fucking a woman's brains out while you're feeling heartbroken.

Either he's brainwashed you enough or you want to fuck another women because you're lesbian. If not then you must have cheated and want to repay by finding a lover for him.

Please don't say you're doing this cause of love, its cheapening that word.

Thanks for your opinion and for passionately expressing it I guess everyone has different experiences and circumstances that make them, them, and what love constitutes for them. Under my circumstances, this is something that I have and want to do I'm sorry if this offends your point of view.

[JuzOldGuy]

dear TS, if u scroll thru the threads, i'm sure u can find plenty seeking SDs
i'm sure one (or maybe a few) of them can meet ur criteria

[Typotypo123]

Originally Posted by JuzOldGuy

dear TS, if u scroll thru the threads, i'm sure u can find plenty seeking SDs
i'm sure one (or maybe a few) of them can meet ur criteria

Hello! Yes, I've been reaching out to some of them. Unfortunately not all responded. But I've got a few people PM me, which I really appreciate.

[JuzOldGuy]

Originally Posted by Typotypo123

Hello! Yes, I've been reaching out to some of them. Unfortunately not all responded. But I've got a few people PM me, which I really appreciate.

whatever the reason behind such searching, wish you success in your hunt

[georgemagnum]

I share the same thots as you, sweet sis.
One other plausible scenario is that TS has some severe medical condition.
Or leaving the world for good

Originally Posted by fion.18

sounds dodgy to me le.

if you really wanna find an outlet for your husband to release. why don’t you go book a pay per session escort. find him a pretty and sexy girl and let him enjoy that session, pay, fuck and leave. repeat but with other girls if need be.

by finding him a companion, sb or lover. what if he falls in love? you did mention your husband is affectionate and you must know that feelings can be cultivated over time. as a wife who says she is not looking for a divorce, at least for me, the last i want is to facilitate my husband developing feelings for anyone else but me.

i’m okay to close one eye if he goes get his itch scratched outside with those one off paid sex. but to actually go through all these trouble to find him a lover and risk my marriage when i still obviously want it, wow, no. Never.

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by georgemagnum

I share the same thots as you, sweet sis.
One other plausible scenario is that TS has some severe medical condition.
Or leaving the world for good

still don’t make sense, if i’m dying soon or damn sick i would want all of his attention for my remaining days. He will have all the time in the world after i pass on to find woman ma. plus can claim my insurance leh! got money scared no woman meh.

but ultimately it’s her choice and we can only wish her the best of luck.

[georgemagnum]

Wise thoughts you have, sweet sis
Thumb up!

Originally Posted by fion.18

still don’t make sense, if i’m dying soon or damn sick i would want all of his attention for my remaining days. He will have all the time in the world after i pass on to find woman ma. plus can claim my insurance leh! got money scared no woman meh.

but ultimately it’s her choice and we can only wish her the best of luck.